{"id":1268,"date":"2021-09-27T15:15:20","date_gmt":"2021-09-27T19:15:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/happier-at-home.mysites.io\/?p=1268"},"modified":"2021-09-27T15:15:20","modified_gmt":"2021-09-27T19:15:20","slug":"how-to-help-loved-ones-with-dementia-cope-with-the-loss-of-a-spouse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/happierathome.com\/dev_staging\/how-to-help-loved-ones-with-dementia-cope-with-the-loss-of-a-spouse\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Help Loved Ones with Dementia Cope with the Loss of a Spouse"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Coping with the loss of a spouse is incredibly difficult on its own. Adding Dementia or Alzheimer’s into the mix makes this grieving process even more delicate. There are creative and effective ways to help family members who suffer from Alzheimer’s disease or Dementia cope with the loss of their spouse. Remembering that there are different stages and types of dementia<\/strong>, making sure the surviving spouse does not become socially isolated<\/strong> and not rushing other major changes <\/strong>in their lives are among the top expert recommendations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We are increasingly challenged by the need to communicate difficult information to aging family members with Dementia. According to the National Institutes of Health (NIH<\/a>) as many as 5 million<\/strong> of the 43 million Americans age 65 and older may have Alzheimer\u2019s disease and another 1.8 million<\/strong> people have some other form of dementia and the numbers are rising at alarming rates.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The most effective strategies for helping a loved one with dementia cope with the loss of their spouse include:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1)        There are many different stages of dementia. Your loved one\u2019s capacity for understanding, coping and grieving can be very different depending on their stage of dementia.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2)        If your loved one\u2019s response to reminiscing about their spouse is positive, share old photos<\/strong> and memories.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3)        Share music<\/strong> that is of the time of their courtship and marriage. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

4)        Make sure the surviving spouse is not socially isolated.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

5)        Reassure them<\/strong> there are people who care about them and will care for them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6)        Do not underestimate their ability to understand<\/strong>, at an emotional level, what they cannot express verbally<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7)        It may make sense for them at some point to move to a facility, or closer to family. But give them time to adapt <\/strong>so there aren\u2019t too many major life changes at once.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

At Happier at Home, we can design care plans that align with your loved ones needs and whatever changes they may face. We also have specialized Alzheimer’s and Dementia caregivers that are equipped with the skills they need to successfully provide outstanding care. Read more about our Alzheimer’s and Dementia support here<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n