Online dating isn’t just for younger generations anymore. Seniors are stepping into the dating world with confidence—and for good reason. Whether you’re looking for companionship, romance, or even love, the online world offers plenty of options. But before you make a profile and start swiping, there are a few key things you should know.
Pick the Right Platform for Your Age
Not every dating app is designed for seniors. If you’re using platforms built for younger users, you might feel out of place. That’s why sites like OurTime, SilverSingles, and eHarmony can feel more welcoming. They’re easier to navigate and focus on meaningful connections rather than quick flings.
Don’t just sign up anywhere—choose a platform where people actually want the same things as you.
Build a Profile That Gets Attention
Your profile is your first impression, and it matters more than you think.
- Upload a clear, recent photo—smiling helps!
- Write a short bio that sounds like you. Keep it light, but honest.
- Mention your hobbies and what you’re looking for in a partner.
- Skip vague phrases like “I love life” or “just seeing what’s out there.” Be specific.
Want to stand out? Say what makes you happy and who you’re hoping to meet.
Watch Out for Scams Targeting Seniors
Unfortunately, online dating has its share of bad actors. And yes, scammers often target seniors.
Red flags to look for:
- They avoid video calls.
- Their stories don’t add up.
- They ask for money—for any reason.
Tip: Never send money to someone you’ve only met online. And if something feels off, trust your instincts.
Keep Things Safe and Comfortable
Before meeting someone in person, talk over the phone or do a video chat. Always meet in a public place the first time, and tell someone you trust where you’re going.
If the conversation ever makes you uncomfortable, you don’t owe anyone a reply. Ask a family member or Happier at Home caregiver to help you block them and move on.
Add a Bit of Fun to the Process
Dating should be exciting, not stressful. If you treat it like an adventure, you’ll enjoy the ride more.
- Try writing funny headlines for your profile.
- Ask questions that get beyond small talk.
- Don’t take rejection personally—it happens to everyone.
And here’s something most people won’t tell you: it’s okay to take a break. If the experience starts feeling draining, log off and come back later with fresh energy.
Published June 2024 • Updated August 2025
Reviewed by Debbie Marcello, Founder & CEO of Happier at Home
This content is for informational use only and does not replace medical advice.
