The holidays should bring joy—but for many families caring for aging loved ones, they also bring stress. Between travel, guests, cooking, and keeping up traditions, the season can feel overwhelming. And when caregiving is added to the mix? Burnout isn’t far behind.
So what can you actually do to lighten the load?
Why the Holidays Are So Hard for Caregivers
As schedules fill up and demands pile on, family caregivers often find themselves stretched thin. Maybe you’re juggling a full-time job, hosting holiday meals, and also responsible for your parent’s medication schedule. Maybe Mom needs help getting to appointments while you’re trying to shop for gifts.
Even small disruptions—like unpredictable weather or last-minute visitors—can throw off a carefully balanced care routine.
This is where extra support makes all the difference.
The Kind of Help That Matters Most
Hiring professional caregivers for even a few hours during the week can offer huge relief. Here’s what that help might look like:
- Transportation to holiday events or medical appointments
- Assistance with dressing, grooming, and mealtime routines
- Help decorating, baking, or setting up for small gatherings
- Companionship to prevent loneliness when family is away
- Respite care so family members can recharge
It’s not just about managing tasks—it’s about protecting your own well-being.
What Happens If You Wait Too Long?
The holidays come with urgency. Agencies book quickly. Schedules tighten. If you wait until things feel unbearable, the help you need might already be spoken for.
Reach out early. Even a short conversation with a care coordinator can reveal simple ways to reduce stress and make the holidays smoother for everyone.
Real Families. Real Relief.
“I didn’t realize how much I needed the help until I had it,” said Mary, a caregiver whose mother receives in-home care from Happier at Home during the holiday season. “I was able to be present with my kids again. I could breathe.”
Families like Mary’s aren’t rare. The holidays don’t have to be a time of survival mode. With a little planning, they can be joyful again.
Ready to Take the First Step?
If you think your family might benefit from extra hands this holiday season, call Happier at Home. Even one conversation can open the door to relief.
Our caregivers can assist clients throughout the holidays. As our senior loved ones age and their needs change, we can help to adjust to those needs and keep the holiday season spirit. Discover more of our services we offer here!
Published June 2024 • Updated August 2025
Reviewed by Debbie Marcello, Founder & CEO of Happier at Home
This content is for informational use only and does not replace medical advice.